Taffy Spanx Interview

  • Discovering Matures: Thanks for taking the time for Discovering Matures Taffy. I love your name, how did you choose it?
  • Taffy Spanx: Well, when my husband and I first got together, I surprised him one night by dressing in a school girl costume and announced my name as "Taffy". She became my naughty alter-ego. It seemed only natural to keep it for when I went into amateur porn.
  • DM: How long have you been doing modeling?
  • TS: um... since April 2009
  • DM: How did you get started?
  • TS: My hubby loved Southern Charms, and asked me if I would be interested. I was horrified! How could he ask me to bare all for the world wide web? But, as time went on, and the more I looked and learned about Southern Charms, I thought - 'Hey, if some of these chicks can make a buck, I can surely make some too'. The rest is history.
  • DM: Did you have any concerns about doing adult modeling?
  • TS: Of course! I mean with my first husband, he never saw me undress in front of him, and we always had sex in the dark! My current husband made me feel beautiful to be a BBW. He taught me to be comfortable in my own skin, that made it easier. My biggest worry is that my children would find out, or a neighbor would recognize me. So far, so good!
  • DM: Do you have any thoughts or comments on the increased use of terms like MILF or cougar? Are you ok with them?
  • TS: Well us older chicks are HOT! You all can call us what ever you like!
  • DM: From anyone who's visiting your sites, you have a huge affinity (obsession perhaps?) with high heels. When and how did that happen?
  • TS: OMG I just LOVE heels. Always have! Marrying the perfect man, as I did, he has an even larger obsession/fetish of heels. Together, we are a deadly couple. I have on average 75 pairs in my closet. I try to sell some when my shelves are full. Each pair has its own plastic box. :)
  • DM: Any other obsessions that you would like to talk about?
  • TS: Ummm... well I am especially fond of BBC!
  • DM: What the biggest thrill you get from the modeling? I absolutely LOVE to hear from my fans.
  • TS: Its the greatest boost to my ego and power trip I could ever wish for. If you have thought about writing to me, but are too shy, PLEASE take the time to send me a note. I try to answer all of you.
  • DM: Who is your photographer?
  • TS: My loving husband of course!
  • DM: You don't do videos. What are the other limits you've placed on your work?
  • TS: I have 3 children. It took me a long time to justify what could happen if/when they discover my site. I decided I can live with explaining photos, but videos can go viral. I am not comfortable with that. Other 'limits' are I will not shoot with anyone else, male or female, and I wont meet any fans. Hubby and I are completely monogamous, and those are the 'rules' we set in place before I ever went online.
  • DM: I mentioned this as work. Can you explain to people all that's involved with doing a photo shoot?
  • TS: Well we have to decide where to shoot. I like to shoot in different locations each time. I may duplicate, but it would never be back to back. There are several models that always stand in front of the same door every single shoot. I just think my fans deserve better! Next we have to be sure the kids are away! Or if we decide to take it outside on-site somewhere, we have to drive and secure a location. Next, there is wardrobe choices, and hair and makeup. Hubby sets up lighting and preps his camera. It usually takes 1.5-2 hours per shoot. Then a good 2-3 evenings of editing.
  • DM: Wow, that is a lot of working going into a set. I'll let you turn the tables - do you have any questions for us?
  • TS: I cannot think of any specific question... I guess, are there any requests for shoots?? Keep the emails, IM's, blog ( taffyspanx.blogspot.com ) and tweets ( @TaffySpanx ) comments coming!
  • DM: Any final thoughts or comments for your fans?
  • TS: I really want to say how much I love you all. With out you there would be no Taffy!
  • Well there you have it. Many thanks to Taffy for being our first interview here at Discovering Matures. If you haven't checked out her site I highly recommend doing so. www.taffyspanx.com